So, to begin with: what is it? Explanations there is a great variety, only here while anybody up to the end has not understood the phenomenon nature... So, the medical encyclopedia speaks to us: hypersexuality - constant, extremely high lust which is seldom satisfied, despite numerous sexual intercourses and a considerable quantity of partners. Thus often there is no inclination to the certain person, only physiological requirement without participation of emotions and the psychological moments is satisfied. The requirement can not be satisfied even at frequent orgasms. At men this phenomenon wears the satyriasis name, at women - nymphomanias. And that, and in the pure state it is not enough those deviations: on the statistician, these diagnoses it is possible to put only 0.002 % of the population. Besides, they quite give in to treatment.

Practically each boy passes a phase of teenage hypersexuality, naturally, gradually all passes also the boy turns to the man with unique for him sex appetite. But, to make transition by smoother and not to wait for consequences, psychologists recommend to pay especial attention to education of the teenager. Certainly, not a dream in a front pose, a piano, a circle of a macramé and sports on deterioration, but the young man it is necessary to load it hardly more strongly, than the boy. Talk about his future, about a trade choice, about necessity to develop a body. Let the young man will be defined with a direction of the appendix of surplus of force - and forward! Accustom the child to refer not spent sensual energy on other purposes... He will grow and will understand, that it is called as sublimation.

With girls the situation is little bit another, at them hypersexuality at teenage age is expressed a little (that, most likely, it is bound to traditions of education). But it too a hormonal volcano...

If not to press in medical details of really serious deviations bound to hypersexuality already at adult age often enough there are people... With thirst of sex hardly more than at all.

To you has carried, if at you with your partner in this question a full unification of souls - do not forget then though something periodically to have a bite... Also leave, at last, walk, take a breath of fresh air!

But a situation usually another: one "wants", and the second wishes to sleep... So, what to do?

It is possible to call, of course, in allies a headache... Or to tell, that has got tired on work. But in a year the similar situation will begin, at least to strain... For the permission of this problem there are references of psychologists. And, at the correct relation, they really work!

1. Speak. Discuss with the partner your desires and not desires. Do not hesitate, remember, that in a sex life everything, that does not deliver discomfort to someone from participants - norm. The openness and honesty in relations - is better, than an innuendo.

2. Spend days off, holidays, holiday together. And not at home - try to devote to their travel, campaigns, excursions. Go on a summer residence and collect apples, at last!

3. Get the general hobby. It is better, if it is any active kind of sports. Play basketball on Fridays, float in pool, be engaged in a kickboxing! The one to whom it is necessary, will splash out superfluous energy, and the second - it will save up. The law of conservation of energy.

4. Concern sex, as to ritual. Make love long, to taste, do not forget about caresses and toys, watch transmissions and films, play role games. Allocate day which be going to spend only to beds... And together wait for it!

5. Necessarily discuss all admissible and forbidden moments. Tell each other, what do you think of a swinging, to adultery, to a pornography. Discuss everything, that can recollect is will help with the future. That you agree to accept, and that - never. Stipulate frameworks permitted, but do not forget to mention, that all flows, all varies. There is nothing more flexible under time winds, than the person.